In Loving Memory of Josie Fernandez
Hosted by Erica Jolene and Jenny Park | Transcription HERE
Today’s episode is dedicated to honoring the beautiful life of our little friend, Josie Fernandez.
Josie’s life was filled with so much love. Love for her family, love for her friends, and so much love for her four-legged friends. To honor all the love that she brought into this world, I put together a montage of love for our little Rapunzel.
Our hearts are with Josie’s family as they navigate the unimaginable. Please keep this family in your prayers. For those who would like to help them through this challenging time, I will be sure to add a link to their donation page as soon as it is ready.
You can listen to Josie’s full story in all of its beauty in the episode “Love Needs No Words” from Season One.
Episode Transcription
Erica 00:00
Welcome to Atypical Truth. I'm your host Erica Jolene. Today's episode is dedicated to honoring the life of our beautiful little friend, Josie Fernandez.
Erica 00:06
If there's one thing you'd want people to know most about your role as Josie is Mom, what would it be?
Erica 00:08
I would want people to know that I am the lucky one to have Josie as my daughter. I cannot tell you how many times I hear people say how lucky Josie is to have me as a mom. But in reality, she's given me far more than I could ever give her in return. I call her my little slice of heaven. And it is so true just to be in her presence to feel her pure spirit. It's more than I could never ask for. I didn't know that I needed that in my life before I had her
Erica 00:21
What is Josie's favorite activity?
Jenny 00:21
So, she loves anything in water she loves soaking in the bath. In her hot tub in the pool in the summer. I call her a little mermaid because you can just tell. She gets this weightless feeling and she's able to move her limbs more. It's it's pretty cool to see. She also likes to hold us as we call them cuddle time "hold yous" in our house. Or watching shows movies listening to music playing toys. She just if she's awake, she wants to be in the middle of it. She wants to say I love that about her.
Erica 01:53
Okay, I think I know the answer to this, but I am excited to hear your description. Does Josie ever gets sassy or annoyed? And if so, what is the cause?
Jenny 02:06
Every single day, every day this girl sassy. She's annoyed with something. I mean, the eye rolls, the dramatic size, the growls you know this, your kids put you through the same thing. And she's recently started saying she'll tell you no. It's this little in the back of her throat sound and it happened when it first started happening. I thought, "Okay, she's she's answering me. She's saying no. But maybe it's a fluke?" But now, it's all the time when she's awake. And you ask her a question and she will tell you no. So that's another big sassy thing we're dealing with now.
Erica 02:47
Wow. That's amazing.
Jenny 02:50
It is amazing. It's incredible.
Erica 02:52
What a milestone...oh my gosh.
Jenny 02:54
Who would have thought...
Jenny 02:55
That is hilarious! Oh, that is hilarious. So we've talked about Josie's sassiness but I also know she has the most beautiful smile and boy do those eyelashes set that smile ablaze. I mean, girl is on fire when she smiles.
Jenny 02:55
And of course, she learns to say one word and it's. "No." I mean, that's just who she is. She's going to tell us how she wants things and let you know when it doesn't go her way. And she definitely doesn't have a certain something that makes her annoyed. I mean, one day, she's mad that you're doing her hair or the commercials during the movie are pissing her off. And so it's just day by day what bugs this girl, but definitely physical therapy is a big one that irritates her. And it's it's been so funny to watch because her physical therapist is incredible. She's been with us since we brought Josie home from the NICU at two months old. She is the most upbeat happy over the top positive person. So just see the dynamic between her and then Josie who's fake sleeping, eye rolling, telling her no...it is, it's hysterical. It's pretty funny.
Jenny 04:12
The girl has some eyelashes that's for sure.
Erica 04:15
What makes her smile and how would you describe that and then happiness if for those who've never met Josie
Jenny 04:23
So I think her family especially her big brother Noah, make, that's the, he gets the most smiles, eye contact, everything. Um, her nurses, her dogs. I noticed her smile a lot, you know, the people she's used to seen every day. She's very expressive with her facial expressions. So when she's happy, even if she's not smiling, her eyes are wide open. You know, she's looking at you. She wants to engage with you. Where if she's annoyed, she's rolling her eyes. She's turning the other way. So I think It's pretty easy for someone, if they took the time to really look at her and engage with her to gauge her facial expressions. She's good about getting her feelings out there. Her smile can light up a room and lights up her entire face. So when she's happy, and she's smiling, you know it. It's infectious.
Erica 05:20
I love it. Yes, it is from someone who's always witnessed it online. It definitely is.
Erica 05:26
So your son, Noah, who you mentioned earlier, how old was he when Josie was born?
Jenny 05:39
So he was five, he had just turned five. He just turned eight last month, he's my Valentine's baby. So he was five when Josie was born.